Why do men choose Russian brides?

There are two reasons for that - subjective and objective.

The subjective reason is that the feeling of real love does not know visas , borders and nationalities. "The half" may be in any point of the world. The Internet helps in hearts joining.

The objective reason - character features, education and mentality of the Russian women. The marriage with the her is very convenient because she is psychologically mobile, patient, thoughtful, and attentive. The Russian woman compromises, combines femininity and dignity. She is good at housekeeping, and family is her priority. Helping the husband in everything, creating coziness and psychological comfort she sacrifices herself. The Russian women are beautiful, womanish, charming, always dressed well. They are brilliant housewives and talented educators.

WHO THEY ARE

The Russian brides search for the beloved, father of children. Women aspire to create a happy family and realize themselves as a wife and mother.

Some category of men should be mentioned, who have created in imagination a fantastic image of the Russian bride, mismatching the reality. There are men thinking that for the Russian bride there is only one important thing - residing in a safe country which makes her close eyes on the obvious discrepancy of the partner to her desires. Such men write to women 20-40 years younger than themselves, braving first of all their material welfare and thinking that the attractive Russian girl will agree to become the wife to any man if he is a foreigner for the sake of foreign citizenship.

The percentage of women wishing to marry only to leave the country is very insignificant. And those who do it, usually understand the mistake soon, and such marriage comes to an end with disappointment for both parties. Generally, women realize that the adaptation in the other country is difficult enough and do not want to have an unloved husband in this country.

The Russian brides search for a person who could become a beloved husband, head of the future family. The fact that he is from a safe country means much, but not decisive.

CONTINGENT

Russian ladies looking for a husband abroad can be of any age. However, most often they are young women from 18 to 40 years old. This rule especially applies to women who are looking for a husband through the Internet on their own. As a rule, active Internet users among the fair sex are young, successful women by Russian standards or university students.

Marriage agencies, as a rule, are approached by older ladies, the Agency takes on the role of an intermediary in the interaction between a woman and a foreign man. Among those who are looking for a foreign husband, there are women who are fluent in English (and not only English). But, unfortunately, there is a large percentage of women who have only basic knowledge of a foreign language, which was acquired at school or university. The language barrier often interferes with the active search for a husband and the timely response to letters. If a woman applies to a marriage agency, the agency helps in translating the correspondence.

However, women who are determined to marry a foreigner usually make quick progress in learning foreign languages. Russians learn English more easily than Europeans.

Most Russian women looking for a husband abroad have more self-esteem than their compatriots. These are purposeful, optimistic, life-loving women striving for a greater life. Of course, the mere fact of looking for a husband abroad does not determine the level of consciousness of a woman. But most of these ladies consider themselves worthy of a strong family, a loving husband, confidence in the future, stability. They are not often willing to encourage the manifestation of male chauvinism in some Russian men. They also do not like men suffering from inferiority complexes due to the inability to start a family.

Russian ladies value self-confidence, optimism, respect for a woman, the ability to take care of themselves, and love for children in foreign men. By the way, about children. Of course, the bulk of Russian fathers, like all fathers in the world, love their children. However, it is not uncommon for a man to leave his family and leave his own children behind. They are required by law to pay child support. But only official incomes of men are taxed with alimony, which do not always correspond to reality. Alimony amounts are not enough even for food. The father is not interested in the life of the child, does not feel responsible for him. Caring for the child falls entirely on the shoulders of the mother. When divorcing his wife, a Russian husband often “divorces” his own children. Of course, this is not always the case, but such a situation in Russia is not uncommon. There are few cases when a child stays with his father after a divorce.

MAIN REASONS

There are a number of reasons why Russian women are looking for a husband abroad.

The first reason is demographic. In Russia, there are fewer men of marriageable age than women. Of course, it cannot be compared with the post-war period, when millions of men died fighting for their homeland. But today, according to statistics, men in Russia die earlier, they are more susceptible to serious diseases, among which cardiovascular diseases and alcoholism are in the lead.

Because of this, some women accept the humiliating role of a mistress who maintains a relationship with someone else's husband, hoping that one day the man will leave the family and marry her, suffering from their own forced immorality and feeling flawed (in Russia there is a folk saying: " Never build your happiness on someone else's misfortune." Those who do not want to be a mistress have to look for love abroad.

The second reason is the "peculiarities of the Russian national character" of Russian men. These are the bad habits of many Russians, and the peculiarities of the psychology of Russian men. There are legends about the love of Russian men for alcohol. Of course, this does not mean that in other countries there is no problem of alcoholism. But Russia still remains the leader in terms of the intensity of alcohol consumption. You can often see that almost the main criterion when choosing a partner is "abstained man." There are women (especially in the Russian rear) who are ready to turn a blind eye to the absence of other virtues of their husband, feeling happy that their husband does not drink.

The abuse of alcohol by Russian men can be explained by many reasons, among which the main one is stress against the background of economic instability and the frequent inability of a man to adequately support his family. Often men compensate for their inconstancy with alcohol. They also drink out of boredom. Traveling, hobbies often require material investments, and the average family spends almost all the money to keep the body and soles together - food, clothes, utility bills. Even high-quality treatment and upbringing of children seems excessive to many Russians. Therefore, feasts with a plentiful wine outpouring become their main entertainment. Alcohol abuse often leads to early death in men.

The "features of the national character" of Russian men are due to objective demographic reasons and the Russian mentality. In Russia, there is no flourishing of feminism, as in the West. Formally, there is equality between men and women in Russia. However, in practice, women are often under pressure from men and are in a more humiliating position compared to them. Men occupy most of the high positions, in the business world men are treated with much more trust, men are considered smarter and clearly superior to women.

An unmarried man in adulthood is honorable, such a man is of great value; an unmarried woman of the same age is censured and condemned. The importance of the status of a "married lady" makes many Russian women endure neglect and rudeness from men. Russian men respect women much less than Western men. This is explained not only by the peculiarities of the mentality, but also by the lack of relevant laws in Russia.

Yes, Russian men know how to care if they want. But in Russian families it often happens when a woman takes care of a man. A woman takes on the problems of earning money, raising children, household chores, and with all this, she suffers frank rudeness and disrespect from her husband. And all because of the illusory importance of the status of a "married woman"! Those women who want to "fulfill themselves" - loving, beloved, who are not going to perform male functions, are looking for a husband abroad.

In addition, economic instability in Russia provokes such qualities of Russian men as active condemnation of the rich, envy of the rich and lack of confidence in themselves. In the West, men face fewer problems in self-realization. In the West, there is no problem “how to provide for a family”, as in Russia. In Russia, often talented intellectuals cannot earn enough money even for the most pressing needs of the family.

The third reason is the already mentioned unstable economy in Russia. Women are tired of the beggarly Russian salaries, of the inability to provide a decent existence for themselves and their families, and decide to look for a husband abroad. In Russia, even smart, capable, talented people often live very poorly. The natural desire to have a happy family, a stable financial situation, children, to whom they could provide decent conditions for life and self-realization, forces women to look for husbands outside the country.

Most women are guided by the above reasons or some of them. Women seeking husbands abroad can be conditionally divided into two groups. The women of the first group decided to leave Russia and create a happy family with a foreigner. Women of the second group just want to get married and use all means of dating. They are looking for their soul mate both in Russia and abroad at the same time.